Our Retreats
How It Works
We have created experiences for couples to break away from the routine of everyday life and intentionally spend time processing what your new normal looks like while navigating deep grief. We have partners across the country who make their spaces available for you to rest, wrestle and have quality time together. We will provide optional activities and resources to guide your time together.
Eligibility
Who is eligible for a retreat?
Parents who have experienced the death of a child—from stillbirth through young adulthood—within the past three years.
Do I need a therapist or medical professional to sign Part 2 of the referral form?
Part 2 does need to be completed, but it does not have to be a doctor or therapist. A community leader, pastor, or other trusted grief professional can complete it.
Can I nominate a friend or family member for a retreat?
No. We ask that parents themselves submit the request when they are ready. You’re welcome to share our information and the Request Form, so they can decide when the time is right.
What if I am a single parent—can I still attend?
Yes. Single parents are welcome and can bring 1 support person with them.
Can I bring my other children on the retreat?
No. These retreats are designed as a private time for the parents only.
Do you offer retreats for miscarriage?
At this time, due to resources and demand, we unable to offer retreats specifically for families navigating miscarriage. However, we have a number of resources we’d love to share with you upon request.
What support do you offer for grandparents?
While our retreats are for parents, we provide prayer, encouragement, and can share resources or referrals to grandparent-specific support groups.
Cost
Is there a cost to participate?
No. Thanks to generous donors, lodging and a gift card to help with meals and travel are provided at no charge.
What if I need to cancel?
If you must cancel, please let us know as soon as possible. We are subject to the cancellation policy of the specific property; therefore, cancellations are only allowed for emergency situations.
Process & Logistics
How do I request a retreat and what is the process?
Complete the online Request Form. After we receive it, we’ll schedule a Zoom conversation to hear your story, answer questions, and begin planning.
How long does it take to schedule a retreat?
We aim for about a six-week turnaround from the initial intake to retreat date.
Is a Zoom meeting required?
Yes. This call helps us get to know you and tailor the retreat to your needs.
How do you select the retreat properties?
We look for quiet, private, comfortable Airbnb homes surrounded by natural beauty.
What if I don’t like the properties you suggest?
Please let us know what you like and don’t like, so we can narrow in on the perfect property. If the first three options aren’t a fit, we will send up to three additional properties for you to review.
May I bring my pet?
If you will be traveling with a service animal, you must inform us during your initial Zoom meeting. We are required to notify and make arrangements with the property owners, who typically charge extra fees.
How can you serve families across the United States?
We plan each retreat individually, using Zoom for preparation and booking Airbnbs nationwide.
What happens during a retreat?
Retreats are unstructured and focused on the couple’s needs whether rest, self care, or processing grief together. We provide resources and optional activity suggestions in your care package.
Will I be with other bereaved parents?
No, our retreats are private for each couple or parent. Once you return from your retreat, you will have opportunities to connect virtually with other couples, if desired.